I had a tough time making a decision on my higher studies. I went back and forth on my decision basing them on my dreams, beliefs, and biases. Harry suggested putting the process on paper. I knew the process but, I never managed to think of getting a solution or putting the process on paper.
"Okay," I said. I began to write down my decisions, thoughts, plans on the paper. At first, I wrote down what I say to everyone, 'I want this.'
Being alone with the paper and my thoughts, I questioned, "Do I really want this? What do I want.?"
I put down all the options. I tried to work on the question without expecting a sudden answer. The process gave me clarity and confidence to tackle the important decisions in life.
Harry wrote an article on this. Informative and interesting.