Education- The acting of listening

Kids act as they listen but they do not listen.

Talking to kids about their behaviour and preaching the ideal behaviour is easy. And after a couple of classes and conversations with kids, I realised that kids are good at acting. They act as if they listen but they do not actually listen. It's dangerous to push them into acting of listening. We are instilling fear if we keep talking. Instead of that, the art of conversation needs to be changed. Instead of instinctive questioning or demanding of an answer, the questions and the rapport you built can help a lot.